๑۩۞۩๑ Marguerite ๑۩۞۩๑

 

    消失良久

    上来冒个泡

    工作的事情终于尘埃落定

    终于终于还是进入了自己喜欢的教育出版行业

    接下来就是要好好学习 好好工作 好好生活

    当务之急是制定一套完善的工作休息计划防止我的眼皮再次因为用眼过度而狂跳不止

 

    正如某人所说

    一切都在朝好的方向发展

   

    等我把小屋的网络装好就可以恢复与外界的正常联系了：）

 

    好了~冒泡结束~

    有事没事都欢迎留言~

 

    miss u all ^-^

 

 

 

　　纽约时报几年前刊登的内容

　　现在被我翻出来看看

　　和大家共享吧～

 

　　Questions Couples Should Ask (Or Wish They Had) Before Marrying

 

　　Relationship experts report that too many couples fail to ask each other critical questions before marrying. Here are a few key ones that couples should consider asking:

 

1) Have we discussed whether or not to have children, and if the answer is yes, who is going to be the primary care giver?

 

2) Do we have a clear idea of each other’s financial obligations and goals, and do our ideas about spending and saving mesh?

 

3) Have we discussed our expectations for how the household will be maintained, and are we in agreement on who will manage the chores?

 

4) Have we fully disclosed our health histories, both physical and mental?

 

5) Is my partner affectionate to the degree that I expect?

 

6) Can we comfortably and openly discuss our sexual needs, preferences and fears?

 

7) Will there be a television in the bedroom?

 

8) Do we truly listen to each other and fairly consider one another’s ideas and complaints?

 

9) Have we reached a clear understanding of each other’s spiritual beliefs and needs, and have we discussed when and how our children will be exposed to religious/moral education?

 

10) Do we like and respect each other’s friends?

 

11) Do we value and respect each other’s parents, and is either of us concerned about whether the parents will interfere with the relationship?

 

12) What does my family do that annoys you?

 

13) Are there some things that you and I are NOT prepared to give up in the marriage?

 

14) If one of us were to be offered a career opportunity in a location far from the other’s family, are we prepared to move?

 

15) Does each of us feel fully confident in the other’s commitment to the marriage and believe that the bond can survive whatever challenges we may face?

 

 

 

　　最近推荐两样东西

　　

　　第一

　　疯狂的赛车

　　推荐给那些至今还没有看的同学们

　　其实我已经算是十分滞后的了。。。

　　　　

　　第二

　　心理月刊

　　在练习好自动屏蔽广告页之后

　　基本这是一本信息量大且比较有内涵的杂志

 

 

 

　　先说两句废话

　　关于这个题目

　　其实如果不知道要取啥标题我是不是应该就直接写“无题”呢？

　　---------------------------------------------------------

 

　　一直以来都太理想化了

　　总是相信事在人为

　　定好了目标一步一步前进总会有好的结果

　　现在看来也并不全是这样

　　只能说我的挫折教育比较失败

　　不过现在开始反思应该也不算太晚吧

 

　　这年头

　　找另一半都倡导不要在一棵树上吊死了

　　更何况是找工作呢

　　虽然对于前者

　　我还是非常愿意一直挂在这一棵树上的

 

　　好了

　　总结一下就是要调整好心态

　　继续努力奋斗

　　同时不错过身边美好的事物

　　

　　如某人所说

　　终于不被它吊着了

　　我现在可以安心找其他的树了

 

　　只是我欠大家的伙食要继续再欠段时间了

　　希望大家耐心等待 :P

 

　　

 

　　今天都用来休息了

 

　　晚饭前开始看Closer

　　第二遍看了

　　当年因为喜欢Julia Roberts在第一时间买了这张碟

　　年少不懂事的我看得迷迷糊糊糊里糊涂

　　后来看到蘑菇在开心上说又看了一遍

　　于是也心血来潮又去下载了一遍

　　因为当年那张碟目前应该还在sj的某个角落吧:P

　　

　　看到一半的时候和Adora聊了两句

　　忽然就悟到了一些

　　果然

　　还是需要交流和启发

 

　　看完之后就觉得很郁闷

　　果然

　　一些事情是经不起推敲的

　　于是向某人发了一通牢骚然后去豆瓣看影评了

 

　　看到电影的宣传

　　"If you believe in love at first sight, you never stop looking.
　　If you believe in love at first sight... Take a closer look.
　　Those who love at first sight are traitors at every glance."

　　震撼了一记

　　真的说得很好

 

　　所以说艺术太浓缩

　　艺术太高深

　　我就偶尔被熏陶熏陶

　　平日里还是简单一点好了~

　　Jacques同学说得对

　　能快乐一点何必自寻烦恼呢

 
　　愿大家都快乐：）

 

　　另，Damien Rice的这首The Blower's Daughter真的不错~

　　当年怎么没发现呢。。。